What Happens in HR Stays in HR

What Happens in HR Stays in HR

Most people think HR is about policies, paperwork, and the occasional awkward conversation. That’s like saying a pilot’s job is to sit in a chair and look out the window. After working with thousands of HR professionals, from Fortune 100 companies to small family...
Personality Assessments Don’t Put People in Boxes. Cultures Do.

Personality Assessments Don’t Put People in Boxes. Cultures Do.

Mention personality assessments, and someone will eventually say, “I don’t like putting people in boxes.” I understand the concern. People are more complex than four letters, four birds, or any other framework. The bigger problem is that organizations are already...
Why Some People Dislike Small Talk

Why Some People Dislike Small Talk

Have you ever met someone at a networking event who seemed uncomfortable talking? It’s tempting to assume they’re shy, antisocial, or simply not good at networking. More often than not, that’s the wrong conclusion. Understanding the DISC styles (which I call Eagles,...
The Most Powerful Response to a Toxic Comment Is Four Simple Words

The Most Powerful Response to a Toxic Comment Is Four Simple Words

When someone makes an unexpectedly rude comment or launches a personal attack, the natural impulse is to defend yourself. You explain, correct, push back, or return the favor with something equally sharp. That reaction feels satisfying for about six seconds. Then the...
Is AI Quietly Shaping Your Personality?

Is AI Quietly Shaping Your Personality?

Each of us enters the world with natural behavioral tendencies shaped by our biology. Those tendencies remain remarkably consistent throughout life, but they don’t exist in isolation. Our family influences us first. Friends shape us over time. Teachers, managers, and...