Category: Blog

There are four things you can do with money: earn it, spend it, give it, or save it. Sounds simple, but it’s not. How you approach each one isn’t just about income, goals, or financial literacy, it’s about personality. After three decades of helping people understand...

“Do what you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life.” It sounds inspiring, but it’s not the whole story. Loving what you do isn’t enough. You also need to love how you do it—and that depends on your personality style. Why Your Job Might Be Draining YouYou can...

Every January, we begin anew with fresh goals, good intentions, and big plans. But then, reality kicks in. By February, most resolutions have quietly faded away. Perhaps, it’s not just about motivation or discipline, but rather personality. Your personality influences...

“Just be yourself.” It’s advice we’ve all heard and rarely questioned. But what if yourself isn’t a single, fixed identity? What if being authentic means embracing every aspect of who you are? Maybe you’re the Eagle who steps up when leadership is needed. Or the...

You know the type. They dominate conversations, hijack meetings, and leave you feeling drained or invisible. They’re not just expressing their personality style. They’ve turned it all the way up. Welcome to the world of Too-Much People. Too-Much people look different...

Introverted leaders bring calm, clarity, and strength. Discover how Dove and Owl styles shine in leadership—and why the loudest voice isn’t always the best. Introverted Leadership Isn’t a Weakness—It’s a Superpower There’s an old myth in leadership circles: that the...

After nearly three decades of teaching martial arts, I’ve learned (the hard way) that the difference between reacting and responding is about one second. That’s what martial arts training provides—a brief moment to choose your next move with deliberate intention. That...

I recently lost an old friend because he ignored his health problems until it was too late. It made me wonder why someone would do that and if personality played a role. Hopefully, this wisdom will help you or someone you know. Let’s look at the four styles and their...

The best leaders don’t stick to one style. They flex to all four DISC personality styles—Eagle, Parrot, Dove, and Owl—to lead with impact.  People often ask me, “What style makes the best leader?” In the United States, we have a paradigm that leadership is represented...

“We don’t see the world as it is. We see it as we are.” — Anaïs Nin We like to think we are rational beings, responding to life with logic and clear vision. But we’re not. We interpret everything through various filters—our age, gender, past experiences, core values,...