Category: Blog
Before Math and Science, Teach This
There is one class every child should take. It would influence their career, their relationships, and the way they see themselves for the rest of their lives. It is not finance. It is not coding, AI, or public speaking. It is self-awareness. When students understand...
Diverse styles strengthen teams, but not immediately
Susan T. Bell’s 2007 meta-analysis, published in the Journal of Applied Psychology, summarized two decades of research on what truly influences team performance. Instead of highlighting surface-level diversity like age, gender, or ethnicity, Bell emphasized something...
What Your Money Habits Reveal About Your Personality
There are four things you can do with money: earn it, spend it, give it, or save it. Sounds simple, but it’s not. How you approach each one isn’t just about income, goals, or financial literacy, it’s about personality. After three decades of helping people understand...
Align Your Career with Your Personality
“Do what you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life.” It sounds inspiring, but it’s not the whole story. Loving what you do isn’t enough. You also need to love how you do it—and that depends on your personality style. Why Your Job Might Be Draining YouYou can...
Set New Year’s Resolutions That Match Your Personality
Every January, we begin anew with fresh goals, good intentions, and big plans. But then, reality kicks in. By February, most resolutions have quietly faded away. Perhaps, it’s not just about motivation or discipline, but rather personality. Your personality influences...
Authenticity: Being True to All of Yourself
“Just be yourself.” It’s advice we’ve all heard and rarely questioned. But what if yourself isn’t a single, fixed identity? What if being authentic means embracing every aspect of who you are? Maybe you’re the Eagle who steps up when leadership is needed. Or the...
When Personality Styles Go Too Far: Dealing with “Too-Much” People
You know the type. They dominate conversations, hijack meetings, and leave you feeling drained or invisible. They’re not just expressing their personality style. They’ve turned it all the way up. Welcome to the world of Too-Much People. Too-Much people look different...
The Quiet Power of Introverted Leadership: Why Doves and Owls Make Great Leaders
Introverted leaders bring calm, clarity, and strength. Discover how Dove and Owl styles shine in leadership—and why the loudest voice isn’t always the best. Introverted Leadership Isn’t a Weakness—It’s a Superpower There’s an old myth in leadership circles: that the...
The One-Second Advantage That Changes Everything
After nearly three decades of teaching martial arts, I’ve learned (the hard way) that the difference between reacting and responding is about one second. That’s what martial arts training provides—a brief moment to choose your next move with deliberate intention. That...
The Hidden Link Between Personality and Avoiding the Doctor
I recently lost an old friend because he ignored his health problems until it was too late. It made me wonder why someone would do that and if personality played a role. Hopefully, this wisdom will help you or someone you know. Let’s look at the four styles and their...