Stop Following Your Passion. Find Work That Fits Your Personality.

Stop Following Your Passion. Find Work That Fits Your Personality.

Graduates hear the same advice every year. “Follow your passion.” It sounds inspiring, but it leaves out the part that actually determines whether a career works. Liking the idea of a job is not the same as doing it every day. You can care deeply about a cause and...
The Drama Accelerator

The Drama Accelerator

Workplace drama doesn’t happen suddenly. It is built gradually within the culture. It usually begins with something small—a sharp glance, a pointed comment, or a meeting where someone feels ignored. In a healthy culture, that moment is addressed quickly. In an...
Personality Styles Across Cultures: How Environment Shapes Behavior

Personality Styles Across Cultures: How Environment Shapes Behavior

I’ve joked for years that if a Dove from New York City moved to Kansas, they’d suddenly be seen as an Eagle. Not because they changed, but because the environment did. Behavior is often judged relative to its surroundings. Psychologist Michele Gelfand introduced the...
The Leader at Work vs. The Partner at Home

The Leader at Work vs. The Partner at Home

At work, certain traits get rewarded. At home, different ones matter more. The same behavior that earns you praise in a performance review can cause tension at the dinner table. I’ve experienced this myself. Delegation works well in the office, but I can assure you,...