What Is the Meaning of Life? An Answer is in Your Personality Style

Just as each of us sees the world through a different lens, we interpret our life’s purpose through that same filter. Let’s explore what the meaning of life might be for each of the four styles—Eagles, Parrots, Doves, and Owls.

Eagle: The Meaning of Life is to Achieve and Win

Eagles measure life by the challenges they meet and the victories they earn. For them, fulfillment comes from bold goals, breakthroughs, and legacies left behind. An Eagle finds meaning when they’ve pushed boundaries and proven what’s possible.

“I came. I saw. I conquered. What’s next?”

For Eagles, life is about making an impact. Purpose means leaving something behind that people remember.

Parrot: The Meaning of Life Is to Experience Joy and Inspire Others

Parrots see life as an adventure meant to be shared. They thrive on laughter, creativity, and uplifting the people around them. A meaningful life for a Parrot is colorful, energetic, and contagious in the best way.

“I matter because I bring energy, creativity, and hope.”

For Parrots, the purpose is spreading light and excitement wherever they go.

Dove: The Meaning of Life Is to Love and Serve

Doves don’t need the spotlight. Their fulfillment comes from caring for others, creating harmony, and offering kindness. They measure life by the peace and safety they provide to the people they love.

“Did I make someone feel seen, safe, and supported today?”

For Doves, life is meaningful when it’s filled with compassion, connection, and purpose rooted in people.

Owl: The Meaning of Life Is to Gain Understanding and Solve Problems

Owls find meaning in uncovering truth and bringing order to chaos. They’re fulfilled when they solve problems, make sense of complexity, and offer wisdom others can rely on.

“I matter because I bring wisdom and order to the world.”

For Owls, purpose comes from clarity, knowledge, and making things better than they found them.

Chameleon: The Meaning of Life is To Achieve, Experience, Love, and Understand

When you learn to flex between all four bird styles, you step into the Chameleon State. Here, the meaning of life isn’t singular. It’s a mix of achieving like an Eagle, celebrating like a Parrot, caring like a Dove, and understanding like an Owl.

“I matter because I bring harmony and flexibility to life’s complexity.”

Chameleons see purpose as becoming the highest version of themselves—not only for personal growth but for the people and the world around them.

Finding the Meaning of Life

So, what’s the meaning of life? The answer depends on your style. Reflect on your Eagle, Parrot, Dove, or Owl traits and you’ll uncover a clearer sense of purpose. The more you understand yourself, the more meaning you’ll bring to your work, your relationships, and your life.  

About the Author
Merrick Rosenberg is the author of Personality Intelligence: Master the Art of Being You, The Chameleon, and many other books for both adults, students, and kids. He is the creator of the Eagle, Parrot, Dove, and Owl personality approach. As an award-winning speaker and President of Take Flight Learning, Merrick teaches people how to understand themselves and others through the lens of personality, because when you know your style, you unlock your path.