Category: Blog
You’re Not Selling Them, You’re Selling You
Have you ever walked away from a sales call thinking, “Nailed it!”—only to hear nothing back? You hit all the talking points, believed in what you offered, and felt confident the deal would close. But it didn’t. The prospect ghosted you, leaving you to wonder what...
Confidence or Conceit? The Bright Side of Narcissism
When we hear the word narcissist, we often imagine someone loud, self-absorbed, and constantly self-promoting—an attention seeker and a bragging machine. Not exactly someone you'd want on your team or as a life partner. But the truth is more nuanced. Narcissistic...
Are You the Fun Police or the Grammar Police?
We all have an internal Police Officer…not the kind with a badge and baton, but the part of us that subconsciously enforces our environment to match what we need most. In the world of Personality Intelligence, I use four birds to represent the core styles: the Eagle,...
Time Management by Style: How Eagles, Parrots, Doves, and Owls Manage Time Differently
Time management isn’t just about using calendars and making to-do lists. It’s also about personality. Each DISC style views time differently. The four styles, which I call Eagles, Parrots, Doves, and Owls, each interpret and handle time differently. What feels urgent...
Why Senior Leadership Teams Clash and How to Fix It
Walk into any department, and you’ll often notice a shared style. Accounting is owl territory—where precision, logic, and a strong appreciation for spreadsheets reign supreme. Head over to HR, and you’ll find mostly Doves and Parrots—warm and enthusiastic greetings,...
When It Comes to Personality Styles, Opposites Really Do Attract
You’ve heard it many times: opposites attract. But when it comes to relationships, is that really true? Let’s set the scene. We’re not talking about differences in values, beliefs, intelligence, or background. We’re talking about personality traits—the way we think,...
Parenting with Personality Intelligence: How to Honor Your Child’s Natural Style
Raise the Child You Have, Not the One Who’s Just Like You Every parent wants their child to thrive. It’s instinct. But sometimes, that desire quietly morphs into an attempt to mold them into a version of us. We nudge them to speak up more. Or calm down. Be less...
What Your Yoga Style Reveals About Your Personality
Your yoga practice says more than you think. Discover how personality styles show up on the mat and why knowing yours makes practice more powerful. After thirteen years of practicing yoga and over two decades of teaching people about personality styles, I started to...
The Four A’s of Personality Intelligence: How to Lead a More Successful and Happier Life
Being smart or emotionally aware isn't enough. The people who truly stand out add something extra: Personality Intelligence. Personality Intelligence is the ability to understand your own style, recognize the styles of others, and intentionally adapt your approach....
Resfeber and Personality Styles: What Back-to-School Jitters Teach Us About Facing the Unknown
You can see it on kids’ faces at the beginning of each school year. Some run to the bus, while others hesitate at the curb. That moment reveals more than just excitement or nerves, it reveals personality. Adults are the same way. We might not carry backpacks, but we...